Picture this; You meet this amazing woman through a friend. You hit it off, she's gorgeous asf and tick all the boxes. Through a few drinks you start sharing deep deep stories about yourself & she shares their own. Their depression. Abuse from her parents. How many exes have cheated on her. That bully from school. READ MORE
As a woman, back in the day before my awakening, I was horrendously rude to guys I thought were creepy. Most women have this radar for that kind of energy. We feel this (hell I can’t even describe it) slimy pressure or coercion (not the best choice of words but it’ll have to do) – from certain men. READ MORE
We have patterns. Behavioural patterns to be more precise. That we pick up from our parents and drag through our lives like dragnets full of rocks (there are also positive patterns our parents instill, but obviously they don’t need fixing so we’ll just focus on the ones that do) ... READ MORE
I've been in Thailand the last 6 weeks and thought I'd head down to Patong recently for a few beers & seafood along the beach front. Most of the time when I travel, I do it solo ... which means lots of people watching in beachside bars while I lug beer, stuff seafood into my face & talk to other travellers ... READ MORE
‘The less you care, the more they stare’Ok so I made that up on the spot right now. I was pondering the concept of ‘playing hard to get’ and how, while it’s good in some ways, there’s also a point where you have to give up the game and stop being an asshat about it. Sort of. READ MORE
We’ve all got a fear of rejection for one thing or another, which cripples sometimes even the hardest of men. I know guys who can belt other men in the ring or cover his body in tattoos ... READ MORE
Over the last 24 hours I’ve had some things trigger me. And at the moment, ‘emotional detachment’ is my focus for this week for ‘things to change’ ... READ MORE
Self awareness is a slippery bugger ... Just when you think you’ve got life figured out, something comes along at galloping speed to throw you back in your place. And man that hurts! READ MORE
The tantrums, the anger … honking and screaming obscenities to other people on the road as you whizz your car through traffic on the way to work. Some idiot cuts out in front of you, so at the next traffic lights you get out to give him a mouthful. READ MORE
Most people who know me know that when I want something, I get it. Why? Not because I’m a spoiled brat or I think I’m better than anyone else. I just do the work required day in & day out to achieve my dreams. I’ve dedicated my life to this and you can also have everything you want if you do the same. READ MORE
I had an anxiety attack last night for the first time since last year. I went to bed with it, woke up with it. Then meditated, smiled & got excited about my life - while appreciating that it's just some silly little feeling that was anchored in from past programming ... READ MORE
One of my Facey friends wrote a post about people questioning her singledom yesterday. And I see this a lot. Usually by people who’ve been married for 60 million years and can’t conceive that someone who’s flying solo could POSSIBLY be happy about that ... READ MORE
One simple statement that about 80% of my clients say when they come to see me, ‘But I did EVERYTHING for her/him!’ You gave them your heart & soul, spent money on them, doted on them, listened attentively when they rambled on about their day.
You did everything right … until they cheated. Or started pulling away. READ MORE
Believe it or not, the process of getting over your ex has very little to do with your ex.
Where it all went wrong acts like a firecracker, kicking up sparks of emotion and feelings of failure & hopelessness. But it’s not as hard as you think to move on … if you know the REAL reasons why you’re stuck. READ MORE